At work this week, a colleague snuck off in the middle of the afternoon and got married — at City Hall, to her longtime boyfriend. No one would have known about it had she not asked our boss for an extra day off.

She is an extremely modest person, and shy. Hates a fuss. Many of her colleagues (including me) are extremely fond of her and would like to celebrate her in some way. Others say we should follow her lead and leave her alone. What should we do?

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