Okay, Lisa, here’s a weird one for you: My neighbor brags that he gets a free lunch every Saturday because he goes to a few different supermarkets known for giving out free samples and eats until he’s full! The stores don’t catch on because the sample tables are staffed by reps of the food manufacturers, not store clerks.

My husband thinks it’s funny and harmless, but it just doesn’t sit right with me. The guy’s not poor; he’s just one of those people who thinks if someone is giving away something for nothing, why not take full advantage.

Should I tell him how I feel? And what do you think about what he’s doing?

— Horrified