My 13-year-old son’s baseball coach invited my son to follow him on Instagram. He did. And then last night, while we were out at dinner, my son showed me some of the stuff that’s on his coach’s Instagram feed. It is not pornography, exactly, but profane, stupid, sexual, demeaning to women, and inappropriate for 13-year-old boys.

I want to report the coach. But my son is the team’s star pitcher and my husband says that reporting the coach only jeopardizes my son’s future on the team. Is my husband right? Or should I report the guy?

–Baseball Mom